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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Dealing with youth groups, I've had kids ask me "what is the MOST I can do with a guy/girl and still be a virgin?"
Seriously? What is the point of it if all you're trying to do is find loopholes to "sort of do it" without technically doing it.
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Kids will try to find loopholes to "sort of do" a lot of things in life because everything feels better when you think you're getting around a rule. I realize there are adults who also do this, but an adult is more likely to know that not having sex makes you no less of a sexual being and that you can enjoy physicality without compromising yourself.
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Originally Posted by DrPhil
If people are going to engage in sex stuff without "having sex," they are bullshitting virginity.
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SPEAK. The advice I give to my young ones (at church) is to stop at the point where they feel they are compromising themselves and their values. If you get all the way to sex and don't feel that way, then you need to ask yourself why you're waiting in the first place.
Ugh. I leave for camp in 2 days and I'm sure this will be a hot topic during cabin time.
