When I was in my early teens, my cousin got married. Most friends and family were staying in a hotel, and the bride and groom were leaving the following morning for their honeymoon. Soon after everyone had gone to bed, the fire alarm went off and everyone evacuated the hotel. I remember seeing my cousin, and she looked ill.. I had just assumed she wasn't feeling well because she was sick, or because she ate something earlier that caused her to feel nauseous.
It wasn't until a couple years ago that I found out from my mom the real reason she looked and felt so terrible - she "saved herself" for marriage and she was so nervous, she made herself sick over the whole thing.
I just think it's waaay too much pressure to put on one's self.
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Last edited by ASTalumna06; 12-07-2011 at 03:20 AM.
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