[DrPhil]

I blame Mama Joyce, though. That's the problem with crossing the line. You can't cross the line and then act shocked and perplexed when the line is crossed a little more. Keep the boundaries clear and you will not have to worry about a stripper sucking his own penis at your daughter's birthday party.

Phaedra probably would not have hired him for the party if she thought Mama Joyce would have been offended.

ETA: I also think the confused boundaries of a mother-homegirl is why Kandi was so shocked and perplexed by Mama Joyce's reaction to the stripper. I love my mother and enjoy spending time with her. But, she isn't my homegirl. I do not talk to her and hang out with her like I do my friends. Therefore, if I liked strippers, my friends would not hire a stripper for an event where my mother was attending. They would already know that is not a good idea.