[DubaiSis]

I don't know anything about UND, but it looks like their Greek system is doing pretty well right now. You may have just fallen through the cracks, they may not want juniors (which is common at a lot of schools) or you have an issue you don't want to acknowledge.

I'm a little worried about which chapters will be doing informal rush. Hopefully our data is wrong but it says quota was 31 and total is 72. That tells me very few chapters are going to be rushing and your chances this winter may not be greatly improved.

I would work up the courage to talk with one of these sorority girls you know but not well. No, you can't ask them why they didn't like you in the fall, but you can ask if they ever pledge juniors or ask about the process in general. And she's probably not going to answer this one directly but if she starts doing a verbal dance around the subject, you probably have your answer. Unfortunately there are choices to be made every day of our lives and consequences as a result. You bounced around between schools and may have killed your chances at sorority as a result.

Give it another shot in the spring. Keep in mind that with total that low versus quota, the chapter that may be willing to take you could be substantially smaller than the others or not the IT girls on campus. Be as enthusiastic as you can be, and if it doesn't work out, you're going to have to find something else to fill that void.

Sorry to rain on your parade! The good news is I have no direct knowledge of you or the school, so I could be completely off on your chances.