|
Hi Bright:
I am not sure why sorority members would be offended if you asked about their organization. People love to talk about themselves and the things they are passionate about.
Do you know any current members? If not, find out who the members are and look for them in your classes or other activities that you participate in. Ask members why they joined the sorority, how they are involved, what is their favorite aspect of being a member, etc.
Once you talk with a few members, they may ask you if you are interested in becoming a member. But if not, after you've had some meaningful conversations with members, then ask about the requirements for membership.
Think about not only the things that sorority membership will do for you but also about the things that you have to offer to the sorority.
Desperation is one thing; enthusiasm is another. You will not sound desperate unless you feel desperate.
Keep us posted on your progress!
|