[DubaiSis]

Ideally recs would all be personal, but the sad but truth is to a certain extent it's just a box checked. Does she have one? Yes. Move on. Start the networking and you'll find a fair number of recs. Then for the ones you don't have a personal connection to, seek out your local alumnae panhellenic. But I'll add to AXOrushadvisor's last nickel that you know quite a few Greek women. START with your teachers. My sorority seemed FULL of education majors, and I think that was common. Teachers and nurses.

Rush is stressful. It just is. But don't let too much information freak you out. To be clear, they're still just PARTIES. It sucks to know you're being judged and you have remarkably little you can do about it, but it's not like they're judging you in front of you! Be as prepared as you can, keep a smile on your face, try to be real, and que sera sera.