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Old 11-04-2011, 03:10 PM
DubaiSis DubaiSis is offline
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If it's something you want I'd mention it to him. But you do need to understand he may or may not be into it or he may not have it in him to do the thing. My husband was dragging his feet about proposing and when I finally dragged it out of him, he told me his proposal could never live up to my imagination. So we got engaged right then, while shopping at Home Depot. He's a great guy and we are great together, but if I allowed myself to be heartbroken because he won't do this kind of thing (and a surprise party or anything like it is NEVER going to happen), I'd have ended up breaking up with him. I think this is part of the maturity that comes with getting married older. My marriage is worth more than a public romantic gesture.
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