[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963

You've never told someone to take their time, but didn't really mean for them to move so slowly after you told them to? .

Yes, I have, but that's not the issue. This thread isn't about me, it's about you, and your financial mistake(s) that you made on your date. If you understand what your actions will cost you, perhaps you won't be so quick to do things that are detrimental to your finances. Your mistakes and failings can be your greatest teachers if you accept their lessons. My final advice to you is (like I've said a million times on here) if you spend enough time with her, she'll eventually become transparent -it's impossible not to. People can hide behind a representative for only so long. Until you have an understanding of that, and patience, you'll continue to make dumb decisions. Like I said, have some patience. Do that, and before you take the next step, you'll know what you're stepping into.