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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I had to think about that one for a long time...I think she would need the "there's a time for everything" speech. The outfit in my head would likely not get a second glance from me if I knew she were out on the town for ladies' night or coming from a party but recruitment? I wouldn't be formulating thoughts on her based on what she was wearing (that she's loose or whatever), but my first impression would be that she lacks good judgement if she's wearing that to recruitment (or a job interview or a formal) where the situation calls for modest dress no matter what message you might like to send.
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Also, I think you often have to take into account: 1) I'm out of mom & dad's house and I can dress however I want 2) I was a geek in HS, now I'm exploring another side of myself. (My first boyfriend thought I was way easier than I was because I wore very short shorts [actually I think it was more a matter of I was outgrowing them than them being purposely short, and because I have long legs]. Ha ha ha, was he wrong!!)
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Originally Posted by *winter*
How many girls will say they have no interest in making out with other girls, but do it because "guys love it?" How many really want to be wearing thongs, or watching porn with the BF, or competing in the "Best Rack" contest? Or are they doing these things because they think they "have" to be this other person in order to get and keep men's attention?
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I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you have to make out with another girl to get a guy's attention...you are super duper uber lame and need to get a life. You should only be making out with a girl if you want to make out with a girl, regardless of who's watching. I personally would have no problem with the other two, because I don't mind porn in the least, and because, well, I finally have a rack.
I guess what I'm also trying to say is, don't underestimate women's exhibitionism. There are lots of girls who LOVE showing off and many don't want to admit it, and say "ooooh, I just did it to turn Jason on. I really don't like that sort of thing." My pledge sister said once that her favorite fantasy was to be a Playboy centerfold. I think a lot of women have that same fantasy...they just don't have the guts to admit it...and I loved that she did.