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My only concern with this is just making sure it's okay with the chapter ahead of time.

And please note that "ahead of time" is not like the DAY before you will be in town.

As soon as you know the dates you will be in town, contact the president of the chapter to see if that would be a good weekend.

Collegian's calendars are jam packed with stuff and you don't want to just "drop by" on say, Derby Day weekend.

I've heard it happen where an alumna just kind of shows up (or gives like one day notice) and "drops by" on a busy weekend (ex: Greek Week weekend or Songfest weekend) the complains later that the women were "rude" or "they didn't talk to me" or were "disrespectful."

Well, you just kind of showed up at their home during the middle of a busy day. They can't suspend life to give you/your kid a tour/serve sandwiches to you/etc.

So all of that to say, remember that you are not only visiting your sorority chapter house, but the collegian's HOME as well. So just be mindful of that and give proper advance notice, as you would if you were planning to visit any other person's home.