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Old 10-29-2011, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by DrPhil View Post
On another note, I am still amused when some servers hand the man the bill/tab. Just put the bill on the table and let the couples figure out the rest. I know it seems more "ritsy" at some establishments when the man is given the bill and the woman doesn't see the bill. We went to one such establishment and the server acted like I smacked her in the face when I put my hand out for the bill. Why does it matter to the server whether I'm paying the bill or was curious and just wanted to see the bill? If my man doesn't care (i.e. it wasn't a gift to me like a birthday dinner) then you should stop caring.
Either they think you don't have the money for a good tip, or else they're thinking "holy crap I offended them" and are afraid you'll screw them on tip because of it.
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