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Originally Posted by TonyB06
We can debate how important pure transparancy is on a first date (such is the nature of GC), but he handled it the way he felt he should.
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Exactly! I totally agree. A lot of people aren't transparent on a first date, but hang out with that person long enough and eventually things will show. People can only be on good behavior for so long before the real person begins to surface in your (in general) attitudes toward yourself (in general) as well as toward other people. The bottom line is how you present yourself is one of the first factors of how you land in a person's mind. First impressions are lasting ones.
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Originally Posted by TonyB06
First (and early) dates, IMO, show you things about a person beyond the conversation.
As for the bill, I'd not invite someone out w/out the ability to handle the bill. That's pretty much man-law 101 where I was raised.
Her "look" has absolutely nothing to do with whatever choice I'd make. Why? Because anybody you take out deserves to be treated nicely, and, most obviously, anyone you date you already have an attraction to on some level.
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All of this.
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