[DrPhil]

She probably didn't go buckwild on the menu. If I knew what she ordered and the total cost, I'd probably so "oh, is that all?"

Speaking of people showing you more than they tell you, someone who says "whatever you want" (not even saying "whatever you want within reason") but doesn't mean "whatever you want," and then doesn't stop you when you need to be stopped, is showing you that they might be a pushover.