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Originally Posted by 33girl
If you're that far apart on money, IMO you shouldn't get married in the first place. It's SO much heavier than people realize. Even if you have separate accounts, if you're saying every other day "it's MY money and I'll do what I want with it" that's not a healthy relationship. Maybe you're not fighting-fighting, but you're still feeling the disapproval of the other person.
(Thanks heaven that I learned this lesson in my very first serious relationship.)
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I won't argue that point. He can be a selfish little prick. I don't know what they see in each other.