@AnchorAlumna -- you wrote (remember formal sit-down dinners?) ---
Actually, we didn't have them! I went to a school which didn't have any housing, let alone Greek housing, on campus. All the sororities and fraternities had rooms in the student life building. CLosest thing we had to formal sit-downs would be lunch at the nearby subs shop! lol. Now the school has dorms and a building dedicated to Greeks. My, how the times have changed.