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Originally Posted by KKGHH
I am a new member of my chapter and new to greek life. I understand lavaliers, but my boyfriend does not. We are definitely in a serious relationship and I would love to be lavaliered. How do I explain it to him without making it awkward? He should surprise me with it and give it to be because he wants to, not because I told him to. Also, I get initiated next week. I think its too early to be lavailered because I don't want my sisters to think that I am not taking the process seriously. How long should I wait into being an active before I get lavaliered? We do a beautiful candlepassing, so I want to respect traditions.
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Lavaliering has nothing to do with how long you've been a member. It has to do with how long/how serious your relationship with the guy is. It's not like you're giving him your letters. Or are you?