DubaiSis is absolutely correct, your situation would not hinder your eligibility to join Beta Sigma Phi. BSP is celebrating its 80th year and has an interesting history, though I may be a tad biased
. We are a non-academic/non-collegiate sorority, though we do have chapters on college campuses. Internationals also encourages women to start chapters in their area IF they have the time and commitment to do so.
Another organization you could check out is Delta Theta Tau. Not being a member, I can't tell you as much about them, but they seem to be similar in nature to Beta Sigma Phi. Both organizations have websites that you can check out which are linked in the fairly accurate Wiki articles.
As a non-NPC member, I agree that trying to resurrect a chapter as a local sounds like a bad idea. I would stick with either establishing your local or looking into other organizations to join. Whatever you decide, really think through it, and good luck!