Thread: being "chosen"
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Old 10-05-2011, 11:50 AM
Mevara Mevara is offline
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Originally Posted by southernbelle14 View Post
One of them being, when someone says something about not liking a chapter they received a bid from (generally because of reputation), claiming that the pnm was "chosen" by the chapter. Obviously I don't know about everyone's campuses, but at mine, the one or two chapters with the worst reputations do not really choose anyone. Granted, there are some girls who get cut from EVERY chapter, but those are few and far between. The "lower" chapters just get stuck with everyone else's leftovers. They get the girls no other chapter wants.
I was in a chapter that was considered bottom but we still always "cut" members. Some people just were not a good fit. Maybe we didn't cut as many PNMs as some of the stronger chapters but we were still choosing our members.

Please don't talk about all the smaller chapters like you know what is going on. Maybe it happened at your chapter but don't generalize it to the rest of us.
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