[AOII Angel]

If it's going to be a prolonged process, you may not need to tell them immediately. Meeting other sisters can be pretty laid back, but at some point, someone will need to find out if the women you are approaching are even interested in becoming members otherwise you may be wasting a lot of effort. We used to do COB for just a couple spots but would just invite those few women over for a small party at our chapter room. It'd be like a mini rush party. Afterwards we'd vote whether or not to offer bids to these women after allowing them to mingle with a bunch of sisters. It was a lot less formal or stressful than formal rush, but we filled our spots in one night.