Yeah . . . I can see that. I certainly have no easy answer. Would it be possible to maintain sometype of long distance relationship and still see others locally? Thats an awful lot of pressure to put on yourself.
I have certainly had to distance myself mentally before to prevent myself from becoming overly attached to someone romantically that was very far away. But at the same time I can also relate to the idea of meeting someone very special that lives at a distance and not seeming to be able to help myself. A bad situation to be in.
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Originally posted by IowaHawkeye
Ugh, I'm definitely going to have to disagree with you on that one James... stop yourself from loving someone, being with them, being happy becuase of something that may or may not happen...? to me thats just being chicken - not putting yourself and your heart on the line becuase your afraid... when it comes to someone you love or have the potential to love, the so called "pain" of being apart is worth it and makes you stronger; believe me I know, I've done the long-distance thing where it completely fell apart, and where i couldn't live without the guy, no matter how far he is...
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