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Old 09-23-2011, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Katmandu View Post
You need to calm down and quit the theatrics.

Everyone is not looking at you and you are not the center of the universe. Once you realize that, you will automatically become more comfortable in crowds and among strangers, because you will know it's not all about YOU.
This.

Everyone who is going through recruitment is nervous. Everyone is worried about what to say. You have asked if you will get a bid based on varying circumstances ad nauseam on here.

The most valuable piece of advice that I can offer you is this: a drama vortex is rarely given a bid. Focus on the women you are matched with. Answer their questions, but then ask them questions about themselves...and here's the kicker: actually care about their answers!

Good luck to you. You can do it. Many of us walked to recruitment by ourselves. We weren't alone once we made it to the events. You will make friends in your rush group. You will make friends in the different chapters if you try hard enough.
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