[33girl]

Recruitment doesn't always work out for everyone. The last thing some women want to do is come back to a Greek site and talk about it.

Or if it DID work out, it may not work out the way they thought it would and they're embarassed about what they said about the girls who they now totally love.

Or they just needed this space to talk their feelings and uncertainties out and forgot about it after they got their bid.

Or they're a hobag and hooked up with the TKE president on bid day and haven't left his fraternity house since. (This is a joke.)

Point being - don't harangue the PNMs to finish their story. If they want to, they will. If they don't, they won't.