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Do not worry that you are rushing alone. You are NOT the only girl in the room who did not come with a posse. Coming without a posse is a GOOD THING as 33Girl said. She is wise...listen to her.
Enter the room armed with genuine interest in finding out about the different sororities. What do you want to know? Do you want to know about sisterhood events? Philanthropy? Socials? Campus activities? Ask questions, show interest, forget yourself and think about the women who want to get to know YOU. They are as interested in getting to know you as you are in getting to know them. Some of the sorority women are introverted, some of them are studious, some of them rushed withoout their friends. Although they seem intimidating, they were once in your position.
Re: clothing. Call the greek life office or look at the Greek life web site to see if they have recommendations for clothing. Get out of your comfort zone, get to know women in your dorm or classes who are also rushing and ASK them about what they are wearing. Make an effort to get to know them. You may find that if you reach out, you are no longer rushing alone.
Good luck.
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