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Originally Posted by thetalady
Sweetie, you need to GET OVER this whole legacy thing. It is not the "be all" that you seem to think it is. I bet the majority of your chapter probably doesn't even know or remember that you are a legacy, unless you are bringing it up every day like it makes you something more special. Be friendly, go out of your way to get to know your sisters, be the positive girl who volunteers to help when something is needed. Forget the legacy stuff.
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This.
You wouldn't believe the number of us on GC who were cut by our legacy chapters.
If they didn't want you, they wouldn't have taken you. I understand how you may be having doubts, but sisterhood isn't a just add water and poof it happens. Everything the other posters have said about being friendly and positive is exactly what needs to happen for you to feel at home in your group. Everyone else in your new member class is in the same boat, believe it or not.