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Originally Posted by Ferendial
Hey everyone,
I'm new to the forums (long time lurker, first time poster). I just recently started pledging a fraternity; it's been about a week now
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It's been a WEEK. You're not going to be BFFs with everyone immediately just because they gave you a bid. Give it a little more time, with a truly open mind, and if you still don't feel comfortable, drop out before initiation.
There's also the chance that the colony may not charter (they're not really making friends poaching other groups' pledges, IMO) and then you'd be doubly shit outta luck. You'd be "that hoser who dumped XYZ to pledge those lameasses that tried to charter ABC."
Stay put.