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Originally Posted by squirrel_love
Hopefully there will be a chance during her interview where she can explain why she went through recruitment last year, accepted a bid and then quit before initiation. Which is what a lot of posters here on GC suggest to do even if a PNM receives a bid from a chapter they are less than thrilled about .. because perceptions can change once you're a part of it. In OP's case, her perceptions didn't change so she decided to leave which is better than just going through initiation and leaving later on, in my opinion.
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It's hard to say whether the OP gave the chapter a chance to change her perception. The OP didn't mention at what point she depledged. It could have been anywhere from not going to bid day to not walking into the room for Initiation. My gut tells me the OP gave it less than a week before depledging, just because she describes how she "consistently ranked them last" rather than describing experiences as a NM.