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Originally Posted by renlizabeth
I gave the other sororities a chance, I hung out with them even before recruitment started and it didn't sit right with me. From personal experience, my gut instinct is the best thing to go on. Feelings are stronger than anything else, if something is instinctively bothering you I wouldn't go toward it. There's nothing wrong with those girls, but I could feel a disconnect. So my decision was not based on "love at first sight" it was based on giving them a few chances and I still felt the same.
I think that the chapter that did not extend me an invite back was looking for freshman girls.
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You are putting WAY too much stock into first impressions. Recruitment is nothing like everyday life in a sorority. Feeling like things don't click right away is not unusual. Also, your earlier statement that one of the groups didn't click with you because of "what they were based on" confused me. Do you have a secret Satanist sorority that sacrifices kittens? We all are based on similar ideals, so I have a hard time coming up with something so horrid that a PNM would drop out of recruitment rather than associate with that ideal.