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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
If you are a bit shy you need to get over that. Sometimes it helps to sort of play the part. How would a really strong confident person behave in this situation? And try to do that. That's not to say you should be fake, but sometimes you have to fake it get the wheels rolling. And your shyness could come off as disinterest, which is a bad thing.
Being in a colony could be just the ticket for you. Give it a shot, and as I've been saying a lot on GC lately, make sure you express interest!
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The reason I'm putting myself out there like this is to get over my shyness and I'm very aware how other people may perceive me. That is why I do everything in my power to "fake it till I make it" in that respect. I think the sorority that did not invite me back did not like that I was a junior because even though I had some great conversations with them, I could tell many in their sorority did not rush as juniors...only very few from what I gathered...they probably prefer the younger girls. I'm excited for the possibility of joining the new chapter because I really like the values that they were based on.