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I am sorry you are hurting. i am a mom of college age students, and I feel for you. It can be tough. No one can answer your questions, about recruitment, unfortunately, because we weren't behind the scenes.
I echo what the previous poster said, that even in a smaller school with two groups, recruitment is not always personal. The girls who you spoke with may have really liked you, but they are not the only people who have a say in the decisions.
Don't make yourself crazy by trying to analyze your clothes, hair and conversation. Hold your head up, get involved in one or two activities that are fun for you and that will allow you to meet other people. If COB events are available, attend with no expectations. Sometimes connections happen when you least expect it. Even if those connections do not lead to greek membership, you will have an active college life.
If you cannot seem to overcome this disappointment, you should talk to someone in the counselling center. College life can be challenging sometimes, and sometimes we all need someone to talk to. Best of luck to you.
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