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Old 09-07-2011, 08:25 PM
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This is what we were responding to:

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One of my biggest pet peeves is when I tell a mom something her son did and she turns, looks at him and asks, "Is that true?" Well, of course it's true. I just told you. And please don't ask whether a classmate can confirm what happened or whether another teacher might have been present. It only demeans teachers and weakens the partnership between teacher and parent.
I disagree with this.

I also partially disagree with:

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If we give you advice, don't fight it. Take it, and digest it in the same way you would consider advice from a doctor or lawyer.
This teacher needs to remember that he/she is talking to adults and not to children. And some of the parents that he/she is talking to are also educators/teachers/professors. In that sense, it is absolutely fine to respectfully disagree, have an actual discussion, or request clarification. It is the same thing that I would do with an attorney and a doctor, especially if I am familiar with the topic. Again, that is what adults do.
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