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					Originally Posted by  DrPhil
					 
				 
				How could it be common sense when it isn't common? 
			
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 In my experience, it's not uncommon.  It is, as you said, neither unfounded nor unrealistic.  Lord knows, there's plenty about weddings these days that stress "It's your day and it's all about you -- do it the way 
you want to."  
I consider it common sense to say "this is how we'd like our wedding to be/this is who we'd like to invite to our wedding."  If you let others tell you who you need to invite, you don't need wisdom.  You need backbone.
And I 
will argue about it.