[GolfersLady]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Your friend who is in the sorority who said "they" wanted you, there must have been a computer error, etc - she is either lying and being nice, or is not clued in about how bid matching works. At any rate, it's HIGHLY inappropriate for her to divulge (or fake-divulge) anything that went on in her sorority's membership selection process.

Give your present group a chance. It is the last chance you have to be Greek.

I also pick D, none of the above. Finish pledging, but if you still aren't feeling it - either because you can't find the strength within you to try, or if you truly HAVE tried and still don't feel it - don't initiate. But be honset with yourself as to which you are doing.

I'll second this.