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Izzy, we really are trying to help you have a successful recruitment. I think there's some misinformation and some misinterpretation, and other posters and I have tried to clear it up for you so you don't have distorted expectations. I'm sorry if it came across as "trying to prove you wrong".

There is a LOT of misinformation out there, even among Rho Gammas. It's unfortunate that many of the same myths get perpetuated year after year, to the point where few question them. Most of the regulars on GC know when something depends on the campus and when something depends on the National organization, and when something is an NPC policy. If GC posters give misinformation, other posters will call them out on it. GC is "peer reviewed" that way.

That said, appropriate dress IS something that varies from campus to campus. The Panhellenic website, Rho Gammas, and any friends in sororities would be the best source of that information, unless you want to share your campus (in which case, a live thread is a bad idea).

I truly do hope you find your home, because you sound like you're in it for the right reasons and truly have an open mind.