Originally posted by 12dn94dst
say what u want, just spell my name right. 
You know you need to quit, right? LOL 
Moke, I said is I knew what was posted. You're right, you can't do much with folks that don't want to communicate, but one way or another it would have been resolved...that's just me. And yeah, if the post was edited, it would still be there but there was that month of posts that were lost whne GC went down, again, just putting that out there. The whole mess is just unnecessary. Forgive me for trying to get isht cleared up. Apparently some folks like keeping up mess & complaining about it, I don't happen to be one of those people and I don't happen to like seeing folks I consider friends involved in it either.
I didn't think about when GC went down and we lost posts. Good one there, cuz I'd forgotten about that. I agree, I think it's unnecessary as well, however, it won't silence me. You know, there have been a lot of things said on GC that have ticked me off, and I have never responded, trying to be the bigger person. Yes, I've talked about stuff with some sorors, and with others, too. But I'm like this: there is nothing that I will discuss amongst my sorors about something that happened on GC that I will not discuss out in the open. Kel, you know me, and you know how I get down. I think I've held my tongue quite nicely, and I'm tired of it. So while it might be unnecessary, I'm no longer holding my tongue. And I'm not sending any more PM's either, unless it's in response to a PM sent to me. You feel comfortable enough to write some crazy mess, I don't care if PM's do exist, I'm writing back. Call it petty, actually, you can call it what you want. I call it TIRED. I feel what you're sayin, Kel, I do, but I'm tired, that's all.
I mean, was it that you lost your composure for a few moments or are you like this all the time?
I'm kinda like this all the time, anyone who knows me knows I say what I think (remember the chicken episode during our spa day? LOL). But maybe this did catch me on a bad week. Or maybe it's the build up of all the BS, who knows?
Or is it that you just don't care about any other letters but yours and you only interact because you feel you have to?
The truth? My main concern is Alpha Kappa Alpha, period. It might sound harsh, but that's my truth. I am not INVESTED in anything else. And we can go on and on all day about how we all do the same thing, yada yada yada. But we all pledged our orgs for a reason. There is a reason I am not a Delta, Zeta, or SGRho. Would it upset me if all the others went away? Yes, it would. To me, AKA is the end all be all, but I know everyone doesn't feel that way, so I like that there are 4 of us. Everything is not for everybody. I think about AKA DAILY. No other org gets that from me, so if that translates to that's all I care about, so be it. Is that necessarily a bad thing? I don't think so. As far as interacting because you have to, I'm not sure I understand that one, can you clarify a lil' bit?
Is it necessary to create a thread with the same name on your board in "response."
Necessary? Don't know about necessary, but I wouldn't say it was unnecessary, either. I didn't start the thread, but I'm glad it was started. It turned into a beautiful thread that truly brought tears to my eyes. Did I see it as a response? Nope, because there are some things in those posts that only a soror would understand, so it couldn't be a response, technically. But I do think it served its purpose. And what is so bad about responding in a positive light?
And, Kel, I'm not tryin' to keep stuff going, believe me I'm not. I just want to respond to your questions, so that you get some opinions and stuff on this board. Everyone doesn't know that we are cool, and to keep from the 'gang' mentality, I'm just putting that out there. I am not trying to go back and forth with Kelli, just responding to her questions, so that they are not avoided.
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