[DubaiSis]

Remember that you have to pull your weight through this process. This isn't just about them winning you over. You have to be as charming, open, cheerful as you can be and if you do that, you might find that magically THEY seem better. Your attitude can have an amazing affect on how others behave with you.

Trust me when I tell you, there is nothing wrong with the girls in these chapters. The process sucks when you're a smaller chapter and it is so hard to come out of that spiral because of perceptions. All it takes is a few girls to take a leap of faith! If some other girls in your rush group who you like also had rough cuts, you could team up and hopefully be the beginning of a growth and success spurt. Like you, the girls who end up in these smaller chapters probably have nothing WRONG with them. They're either not as good at the game or have an age issue, or something else that in real life wouldn't be the slightest issue.