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As Long as People are Involved...
Well --
People are people. Everyone doesn't do everything the same. Some people will visit some boards. Some will not. Some people will post all over and some will not. I think the problem is just because people wear certain letters people think thats how that entire organization is. Wrong!
At any rate...the same thing with the retaliation threads. Everyone doesn't handle everything the same way. Sure, some people may do stuff in pm. But others may choose not to. That's on them. We are all different.
Just look how 'we' are acting with the subject at hand. And yes, interest individuals are looking. Do we really want to look like this -- not because we are greek, but because we are black women????
Subject at hand....
Yes, there is competition and hostility. I think sometimes it continues on because that's the 'perception' we give off. When people make bad comments about BDQ when they are TWY they don't realize it looks as though they are competiting or dislike that org. And I know its just you have org. pride, but at the same time do you have to put down to lift up. And we are passing this 'perception' to the interested ladies. And they even say the same thing now. It was a time where interested ladies wouldn't down any org. prior to joining one. But now they feel comfortable and we let them do it and laugh. Pure craziness....and then the saga continues....
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