[IrishLake]

^ Ditto. Dropping out because her choice chapter/legacy chapter released her is a bonehead move. You should have prepared her better for this possibility. Read up on your groups legacy policy, and odds are you'll find the words along the lines of "your legacy will receive special consideration, but no bid is guaranteed." If they are at or over total, then there's no COBing. You won't get any sympathy from anyone here because she dropped out on her own accord, which is a slap in the face to the groups that DID want her, the groups that did think she was smart, beautiful and could be a perfect fit for them. She didn't even go through preference! A sad situation and a hard lesson learned, but no sympathy.

And no, don't dare contact your group and ask/offer stuff like that.