[Ideal08]

Why not post in all forums? Maybe some people just don't have the time. Maybe some people don't find all topics interesting. Maybe some people (like myself) came to GC to meet SORORS and that's it. So not posting in other forums to me is not that serious, it's not what I came to do.

Why do people feel uncomfortable or unwelcome? I don't know? What can we do to make you feel welcome? Should we quote everybody and everything? Maybe we didn't find what you said to be interesting. I mean, what type of welcome are you looking for? What can I say to make you feel more welcome and enjoy your stay more? It's a chat board, people, that's all. I have posted MANY topics that have gotten NO PLAY! Did I feel ignored? Nope, figured peeps wasn't feelin my topic. Move on.

Why the hostility? I'll tell you exactly why I'm hostile right about now. I don't appreciate people bringing up events from the past (Endroad). I don't appreciate it being put out there that an AKA Moderator edited someone's signature when it DID NOT HAPPEN. And if it did, where, pray tell, is the edited post. Because even with the OLD software, it would STILL tell if a post is edited. So I don't think it's cool to put something like that out there like that. That too is evidently a sore spot since it was even brought up, cuz it happened in the past as well. But if you felt that way, why not PM somebody and find out why? Why wait until the drama rears it's ugly head and put the AKA moderators out there like that with an ACCUSATION, not a FACT. While you all may not "feel" me, to me, it's a SERIOUS MATTER. Did I try to rectify the situation and get some clarity? YES I DID! Did I receive a response? NO I DIDN'T. So, with no communication, how quickly would you have resolved that situation? It was important enough to be posted what was allegedly done, but not important enough to give a response when called on your accusation? Whatever. When it was said what the AKA MODERATORS did, that made it personal, and that's how I took it, and that's why I'm lightweight upset.

Why hostility on other parts? I'm not really sure since I can only speak for myself. My opinion, however, leans toward insecurities and the need to feel accepted (that is evidently not being met).

(And please don't take MY opinions as the opinions of my sorors. This is how I feel.)