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Originally Posted by 33girl
It sounds like they didn't initiate her because they knew she was transferring and didn't want her to be stuck at a chapter she may have not liked or wanted to affiliate into, and spend the rest of her college years unhappy. Which is an absolutely exceptionally nice and mature thing for them to do. I mean - they lost a person from their year's quota. They could have just said "hey, go ahead and initiate!" and what happened after she transferred was her problem. I know that your policy might be that you *can* transfer directly into the chapter, but I'm guessing they've had enough interaction with the OU chapter to know some of them wouldn't have fit in well there, either.
I would hope any sorority chapter who had a NM who realized she was in that position (imminent transfer) would give her the same option and consideration.
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Still, the timing is weird...If it's fall recruitment and a six-week NM period, would you know you were transferring in October of the previous year?