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Stalking.
That word raises all the hair on my neck and head, and I get a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. My mouth gets dry and I tense up.
One man who stalked me is now dead. The other is on the other side of the country. As long as I live, I will continue to be hypervigilant (ask AZ-AlphaXi and AOIIAngel, they've seen me in action when I perceive danger or what I think is a threat to my security and well-being).
So once again I mention Gavin DeBecker's The Gift of Fear. It was my lifeline during those dark days.
I'm not saying that's what happened here, but if people have concerns, it's an invaluable reference on what to do, how to act, and how to survive when and if you're stalked.
I was lucky. I lived. And I have two very protective Belgian Shepherds (a Tervuren and a Groenendael) living with me; they are formidable watchers over me.
Deep peace and blessings to all.
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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