There are pros and cons about having a rush buddy, but I honestly think there are more cons.
Pro:
-You have someone to talk with about rush.
-You don't have to walk into the first day alone.
Con:
-Their opinions/thoughts about which sorority they like can rub off on you, even if it's really not how you feel.
-You can end up worrying more about how your friend is doing than you are about meeting the sorority women.
-You might feel guilty if you get a bid and she doesn't (or vice versa).
-You probably won't be in the same rush group anyway.
-If you're too attached at the hip to someone, it can scare some sororities if they like you but don't like the girl you're with. They might assume you won't take a bid from them if your friend doesn't get one too, and then neither of you get one.
No one, especially not the sorority members, are going to judge you if you go through rush on your own.
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