I'm double-posting, but I think it's absolutely perfect that this thread showed up today..
I received a wedding invitation from a sister today. I've known that this was coming, and I've been debating about what to do, but I figure now that I have the invitation in hand and know what exactly is on the front of the envelope, that I'd ask all of you...
The invitation says "ASTalumna06 and Guest"... would it be completely inappropriate for me to bring a friend? I've never brought a friend to a wedding, and I see it done on tv all the time
but I'm not sure if it's actually ok to do so. I feel that if someone is going to make room at their wedding and feed an extra guest, it is supposed to be someone that I'm in a relationship with... but maybe I'm crazy? All of the other sisters who are going are married, or they're very close to it. I went to another sister's wedding a couple months ago, and during all of the slow dances, I sat out. It was ok.. it's not like I was crying in the corner or anything.. but it'd just be nice to have someone else there. And it's a fraternity alumnus, who basically all of the sisters, including the bride, have at least been acqainted with for years.
So.. do I bring him?