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Virtually all of us have been through to some extent or another just what your daughter is going through. It is exactly normal. Once she's been to the other side she will see that to a freakishly large extent, it isn't personal. I mean, yes, there are girls who are cut - we don't like her, she's outta here - but mostly it's just where they fall on the list.
This split rush system is being used on a couple campuses - Illinois and Iowa are two I can think of. My understanding is that retention rates go up a lot by giving the girls a breather. I think a lot of girls who say screw it, I'm done, will have a different opinion after they've had a chance to return to normal life for a few days. That house that seems completely unacceptable seems perfectly fine when they see chapter members walking around on campus and they don't have horns or tails.
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