Definitely agree with the comments above! When the chapter size is around 200, there is something for everyone. I feel the "no connection" is a cop out. Remembering my own daughter's experience, she said some of the girls that rushed her at the "top tier" houses were "awkward" as well. Rush can be awkward experience, and it's hard to connect meaningfully with anyone in that environment. A lot of times preference round is when girls actually get the opportunity to see more about the chapter without all the background noise.
As much as I wish that she had gone to preference and given the last 2 chapters a chance, it's probably for the best that she dropped out. If some of the chapters COB, I hope she goes into it with an open mind and heart.
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