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It has been said on this site before by women smarter at this stuff than me that "not feeling a connection" may be an actual reason to quit if you have a chapter of, say, 30 girls. I still say with a group like that one or two new members can really change the dynamic of a group. But in a chapter of 200 women I patently do not accept the no connection argument. Presuming 3 rushers at each party up to preference, that's 9 girls, about 60 minutes TOTAL. And let's say going into rush a chapter has 120 girls. That means the rushee met 7.5% of the sorority members. Even the most cookier cutter of a chapter has more personality diversity than THAT.
But if she's going to flounce off, it's better for her to do it before preference because all the chapters at Auburn make quota and she is going to free up a space for a girl who appreciates what she has.
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