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If I could point out one other thing: I don't have any personal connection with Auburn and the only info I have on their recruitment is what I have read on this site (including the link to their recruitment brochure). From what has been posted, every chapter at Auburn attained quota. Not knowing anything about the 2 chapters in question that hmills2's daughter was invited back for pref, we don't know if those chapters are at or above chapter total. If they were pushing chapter total at the time, it is possible that the daughter may have taken a bid from a girl who only had one pref invite or really liked that house and suicided for it.
Like most here, when I read the post about the daughter dropping because of 2 invites she "didn't like," I was not overly sympathetic and immeadiately thought of the poster, Wareagle, who was completely dropped from Auburn recruitment but showed lots of class about it on this site.
With that said, I think we can all agree that PNM's should at least go to the parties where they are invited, even if their favorite houses dropped them. As far as pursuing membership, that is a decision each woman must personally face.
I suggest we go back to a positive spin.
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