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Those girls may indeed have meant it when they said they wanted to see her there on pref, but they likely (membership decision processes are private) had to convince the rest of the chapter, and if there were other PNMs who had stronger, louder, more numerous cheerleaders, then that might mean your cousin didn't win a spot on the invite list. Pure speculation - we have NO idea what those houses' membership processes are - but the point is that her not receiving an invite back does not mean that those actives were not sincere about their desire to see your cousin back at pref.
Just tell her to be the best her she can be for the remainder of recruitment, and hopefully one of these houses (all of which are fabulous - I don't even need to know which houses they are to know that - it's UGA!) will be her new home.
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