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					Originally Posted by 33girl  Personally, I find it unhealthy to begin any facet of life in a bubble. | 
	
 I see what you mean.  If you are the kind of person who likes to gather a lot of information before making a decision, then deferred recruitment is much better.
I would be interested to compare withdrawal rates between the two systems.  I mean, somehow with all other factors being equal.  My hypothesis is that more women would withdraw from a deferred recruitment system.