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Can you elaborate on what exactly makes these guys all similar tools? From your post it sounds like your old BF wasn't all that bad, he just didn't want to move in with you after dating for 7 months. I think that's understandable since moving in with a partner is kind of a big deal and should really be thought out and shouldn't be done solely out of a desire to save money. That being said, if you are trying to shack up after only dating them a few months, then yes the problem is you.
There is also the possibility that your expectations are too high. No guy or girl is perfect so you have to learn to look past and accept certain undesirable traits as part of your BF's total package. Maybe you can make a list of 5 priorities you want in a mate, and only date the guys that meet at least 3 of those priorities?
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