[ComradesTrue]

So much here. Where to begin?

First, an alumna of ADPi must write the rec letter. A legacy is the daughter, granddaughter or sister of a member. Your terminology is mixed up. An alumna is a woman who has been initiated into a sorority and is no longer in college. And no, a non-member may not write your rec.

Second, you are setting yourself up for major disappointment by only focusing on one chapter. Each day of recruitment the chapters must narrow their list down further. It could happen that other girls going through recruitment stand out more than you and fall higher on the list thereby meaning that you are cut. You are strongly advised to look for positives in all the chapters.

Finally, depending on where you will be attending college, not having a rec will negatively impact your ability to get a bid. Continue to network to find an ADPi alumna.

ETA: Sorry, ADPis. Just realized that this was posted in your forum. Please forgive the crash.